Compassionate, honest, heartfelt

Имя

Janus

Говорю на языках:

Английский, Испанский

Я бы описал(а) себя как

I have been single for most of my adult life, so I do not need someone to rescue me or support me. By the same token I do not want someone that I have to rescue or support either, as I have already done my share of caretaking in bad relationships over the years. I want a partnership that supports each other as best as possible, with love, commitment, humor, communication, and honesty. We do not need to be joined at the hip, nor necessarily enjoy all of the same things, but we do need to value the desires and interests of our partner, even if we don’t wish to participate in all their choices. That also takes trust, that can only come with time & security.

I am still working full time in a job that is my passion so I don’t anticipate retiring for a few more years, but being self-employed, I can plan vacations and time off as needed. I would love to find someone who loves to travel as much as I do and enjoys experiencing the culture, language, and customs of other places, as well as the spectacular beauty of nature & National Parks.
I am a lover of people, both the old and the young, having been an elementary teacher, a deep tissue bodyworker, & now a provider of Compassionate Touch work for the elderly, chronic pain sufferers, and dementia & hospice patients. As difficult as this work can be, I love ministering to this population who are so in need of tender touch and attention. My soul is rejuvenated when I return home to my household of rescue animals who greet me with joy, delight, and unconditional love.

I live in Flagstaff because it is one of the only Democratic cities in our state, so obviously I am an extremely left-wing liberal. If that is a problem for you, then stop reading now because I won’t change and I’m not sure that I could coexist with someone who is extremely conservative in their viewpoints and attitudes in life. I am by nature a caretaker, and a caregiver, and I wish to be with someone who is as compassionate for others as I am. My mother taught me well to be kind and loving to all I meet, and I will not surround myself with negativity and prejudice. If we can’t all learn to live together in harmony and tolerance & acceptance, then what is the purpose in us being here? After all, I am one of the perfect examples of being a child of the 60s… And proud of it! We wanted to change the world for the better, and I’m still happily working towards that goal, in my own way, in my own life. Because after all, that is all we can do: to make our own little world a better place, and hope that the slow, quiet progress ripples outward.

Good luck on finding the right person just for you, but it may take time & patience & tolerance. But at our age, we probably have plenty of all of those!

Знак зодиака

Близнецы

Телосложение

Худое

Мой рост

182 см

Мои глаза

Серые

Моя этническая принадлежность

Белый европеец/кавказец

Семейное положение

В разводе

У меня есть дети

Нет

Привлекательная часть тела

Улыбка

Боди-арт

Пирсинг… ушей

Мои волосы

Блондинка

Домашние животные

Кошка, Собака

Хочу переехать

Нет

Образование

Высшее (магистр)

Работа/Учеба:

Работаю на себя

Род занятий

Медицина

Род занятий

Deep-Tissue Therapist/CompassionateTouch

Зарабатываю в год

от $30,000USD до $44,999USD

Живу

Один/одна

Дома

Все очень спокойно

Отношение к курению

Нет

Пью

Да - один или два раза

В школе я был(а):

Тихоня

Мое социальное поведение

Сама дружелюбность

Интересы и увлечения:

Ужин, Чтение, Учеба, Музыка, Фильмы, Танцы, Театр, Путешествия

Мое представление об отлично проведенном времени

Тусовки с друзьями, Шопинг, Останусь дома, Фильмы, Расслабление, Чтение книг, Пойду на концерт, Пойду в музей

Идеально первое свидание

Unfortunately, with present circumstances, it would not be how I would have pictured it in the past...Now, meeting at some outdoor cafe, sitting six feet apart while sharing a coffee or a beer, getting to know one another, occ pulling the mask aside to see the other face!

Я всегда хотел попробовать

Good question...no answer...

Друзья считают что я:

Сама дружелюбность, На кого они хотят быть похожими, Немного "того"

Моя религия

Не поддерживаю религии

Моя цель в жизни

accomplished! I came to serve this lifetime, and I have spent my life taking care of others, and doing it in a loving way that was beneficial to them as well as to myself. I feel blessed to have found two careers that I adored and that were my soul's purpose this lifetime.

Мой юмор

Умный, Сарказм, Сама дружелюбность, Немного "того"

По телевизору, я всегда смотрю

Драма, Фильмы, Не люблю ТВ

Предпочитаемые жанры фильмов:

Научная фантастика, Комедии, Мелодрамы, Драмы, Документальные, Семья, Триллеры

Предпочитаемая музыка

Рок, Классика, Блюз, Джаз, Латинская, Нью-эйдж, Окружающей среды, Душевная

Я люблю читать:

Автобиография, Биография, Классика, Художественная литература, Здоровье, Тайна

Мои идеи классного времяпрепровождения

enjoying whom I'm with...

Считаю привлекательным:

Остроумие, Чувствительность, Сопереживание, Юмор, Красота, Внимание, Интеллект

Что и кого ищете?

Someone with all of the above...is there anyone out there????

Ищу отношения типа:

Друг, Свидание, Интим, Серьезные отношения