Compassionate, honest, heartfelt
CompassionateJan
Flagstaff, Arizona | Femme Cherchant Homme
Informations de base
Prénom
Janus
Je sais parler
Anglais, Espagnol
Je me décrirais comme
I have been single for most of my adult life, so I do not need someone to rescue me or support me. By the same token I do not want someone that I have to rescue or support either, as I have already done my share of caretaking in bad relationships over the years. I want a partnership that supports each other as best as possible, with love, commitment, humor, communication, and honesty. We do not need to be joined at the hip, nor necessarily enjoy all of the same things, but we do need to value the desires and interests of our partner, even if we don’t wish to participate in all their choices. That also takes trust, that can only come with time & security.
I am still working full time in a job that is my passion so I don’t anticipate retiring for a few more years, but being self-employed, I can plan vacations and time off as needed. I would love to find someone who loves to travel as much as I do and enjoys experiencing the culture, language, and customs of other places, as well as the spectacular beauty of nature & National Parks.
I am a lover of people, both the old and the young, having been an elementary teacher, a deep tissue bodyworker, & now a provider of Compassionate Touch work for the elderly, chronic pain sufferers, and dementia & hospice patients. As difficult as this work can be, I love ministering to this population who are so in need of tender touch and attention. My soul is rejuvenated when I return home to my household of rescue animals who greet me with joy, delight, and unconditional love.
I live in Flagstaff because it is one of the only Democratic cities in our state, so obviously I am an extremely left-wing liberal. If that is a problem for you, then stop reading now because I won’t change and I’m not sure that I could coexist with someone who is extremely conservative in their viewpoints and attitudes in life. I am by nature a caretaker, and a caregiver, and I wish to be with someone who is as compassionate for others as I am. My mother taught me well to be kind and loving to all I meet, and I will not surround myself with negativity and prejudice. If we can’t all learn to live together in harmony and tolerance & acceptance, then what is the purpose in us being here? After all, I am one of the perfect examples of being a child of the 60s… And proud of it! We wanted to change the world for the better, and I’m still happily working towards that goal, in my own way, in my own life. Because after all, that is all we can do: to make our own little world a better place, and hope that the slow, quiet progress ripples outward.
Good luck on finding the right person just for you, but it may take time & patience & tolerance. But at our age, we probably have plenty of all of those!
I am still working full time in a job that is my passion so I don’t anticipate retiring for a few more years, but being self-employed, I can plan vacations and time off as needed. I would love to find someone who loves to travel as much as I do and enjoys experiencing the culture, language, and customs of other places, as well as the spectacular beauty of nature & National Parks.
I am a lover of people, both the old and the young, having been an elementary teacher, a deep tissue bodyworker, & now a provider of Compassionate Touch work for the elderly, chronic pain sufferers, and dementia & hospice patients. As difficult as this work can be, I love ministering to this population who are so in need of tender touch and attention. My soul is rejuvenated when I return home to my household of rescue animals who greet me with joy, delight, and unconditional love.
I live in Flagstaff because it is one of the only Democratic cities in our state, so obviously I am an extremely left-wing liberal. If that is a problem for you, then stop reading now because I won’t change and I’m not sure that I could coexist with someone who is extremely conservative in their viewpoints and attitudes in life. I am by nature a caretaker, and a caregiver, and I wish to be with someone who is as compassionate for others as I am. My mother taught me well to be kind and loving to all I meet, and I will not surround myself with negativity and prejudice. If we can’t all learn to live together in harmony and tolerance & acceptance, then what is the purpose in us being here? After all, I am one of the perfect examples of being a child of the 60s… And proud of it! We wanted to change the world for the better, and I’m still happily working towards that goal, in my own way, in my own life. Because after all, that is all we can do: to make our own little world a better place, and hope that the slow, quiet progress ripples outward.
Good luck on finding the right person just for you, but it may take time & patience & tolerance. But at our age, we probably have plenty of all of those!
Signe
Gémeaux
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Mince
Ma taille est
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Mes yeux sont
Gris
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Divorcé/e
J'ai des enfants
Non
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Sourire
Art Corporel
Oreilles percées
Mes cheveux sont
Blonds
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Chat, Chien
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Diplôme d'études supérieures
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Auto-entrepreneur
Mon domaine de compétence est
Médical / Santé
Mon titre de fonction est
Deep-Tissue Therapist/CompassionateTouch
J'ai gagné cette année
De 30,000 € à 44,999 €
Je vis
Seul/e
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - de temps à autres
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Calme
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Sympa
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Dîner , Lecture, Apprendre, Musique, Films, Danse, Théâtre, Voyages
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Faire du shopping, Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Lire, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Unfortunately, with present circumstances, it would not be how I would have pictured it in the past...Now, meeting at some outdoor cafe, sitting six feet apart while sharing a coffee or a beer, getting to know one another, occ pulling the mask aside to see the other face!
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
Good question...no answer...
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, La personne qu'ils aimeraient être, Neuneu
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses
Mon but dans la vie c'est
accomplished! I came to serve this lifetime, and I have spent my life taking care of others, and doing it in a loving way that was beneficial to them as well as to myself. I feel blessed to have found two careers that I adored and that were my soul's purpose this lifetime.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Drames, Films, Je n'aime pas la télévision
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Science-fiction, Comédies, Romantiques, Drames, Documentaires, Famille, Thrillers
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Rock, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Latino, New age, Musique ambientale, Soul
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Autobiographies, Biographies, Littérature classique, Fictions, Santé, Mystères
Mon idée du fun
enjoying whom I'm with...
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Bon sens, Sensibilité, Empathie, Humour, Beauté, Délicatesse, Intelligence
Que recherchez-vous?
Someone with all of the above...is there anyone out there????
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement