Compassionate, honest, heartfelt

Etunimi

Janus

Osaan puhua

Englanti, Espanja

Kuvailisin itseäni

I have been single for most of my adult life, so I do not need someone to rescue me or support me. By the same token I do not want someone that I have to rescue or support either, as I have already done my share of caretaking in bad relationships over the years. I want a partnership that supports each other as best as possible, with love, commitment, humor, communication, and honesty. We do not need to be joined at the hip, nor necessarily enjoy all of the same things, but we do need to value the desires and interests of our partner, even if we don’t wish to participate in all their choices. That also takes trust, that can only come with time & security.

I am still working full time in a job that is my passion so I don’t anticipate retiring for a few more years, but being self-employed, I can plan vacations and time off as needed. I would love to find someone who loves to travel as much as I do and enjoys experiencing the culture, language, and customs of other places, as well as the spectacular beauty of nature & National Parks.
I am a lover of people, both the old and the young, having been an elementary teacher, a deep tissue bodyworker, & now a provider of Compassionate Touch work for the elderly, chronic pain sufferers, and dementia & hospice patients. As difficult as this work can be, I love ministering to this population who are so in need of tender touch and attention. My soul is rejuvenated when I return home to my household of rescue animals who greet me with joy, delight, and unconditional love.

I live in Flagstaff because it is one of the only Democratic cities in our state, so obviously I am an extremely left-wing liberal. If that is a problem for you, then stop reading now because I won’t change and I’m not sure that I could coexist with someone who is extremely conservative in their viewpoints and attitudes in life. I am by nature a caretaker, and a caregiver, and I wish to be with someone who is as compassionate for others as I am. My mother taught me well to be kind and loving to all I meet, and I will not surround myself with negativity and prejudice. If we can’t all learn to live together in harmony and tolerance & acceptance, then what is the purpose in us being here? After all, I am one of the perfect examples of being a child of the 60s… And proud of it! We wanted to change the world for the better, and I’m still happily working towards that goal, in my own way, in my own life. Because after all, that is all we can do: to make our own little world a better place, and hope that the slow, quiet progress ripples outward.

Good luck on finding the right person just for you, but it may take time & patience & tolerance. But at our age, we probably have plenty of all of those!

Kirjaudu

Kaksoset

Vartalonmallini on

Hoikka

Pituuteni on

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Silmienvärini on

Harmaa

Etninen taustani on

Valkoihoinen

Aviosäätyni on

Eronnut

Minulla on lapsia

Ei

Paras puoleni on

Hymy

Ulkonäkö

Lävistetty... Mutta vain korvista

Hiukseni ovat

Blondi

Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista

Kissa, Koira

Olen valmis muuttamaan

Ei

Koulutukseni taso on

Korkeakoulu tutkinto

Työllisyys tilanteeni on

Yrittäjä

Erikoistun

Lääketieteellinen / Terveys

Työ tittelini on

Deep-Tissue Therapist/CompassionateTouch

Tuloni per vuosi

$30,000USD - $44,999USD

Asun

Yksin

Kotona

Kaikki on rauhallista

Tupakoin

Ei

Juon

Kyllä - Yksi tai Kaksi

Yläasteella olin

Hiljainen

Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni

Ystävällinen

Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat

Ruokailla, Lukeminen, Oppiminen, Musiikki, Elokuvat, Tanssiminen, Teatteri, Matkustaminen

Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on

Kavereiden kanssa hengailu, Shoppailu, Kotona oleskelu, Elokuvat, Rentoutuminen, Kirjan Lukeminen, Konserttiin meneminen, Museossa käyminen

Unelma treffini olisivat

Unfortunately, with present circumstances, it would not be how I would have pictured it in the past...Now, meeting at some outdoor cafe, sitting six feet apart while sharing a coffee or a beer, getting to know one another, occ pulling the mask aside to see the other face!

Olen aina halunnut kokeilla

Good question...no answer...

Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan

Ystävällinen, Joku jota muut kadehtii, Hassu

Uskontoni on

Hengellinen mutta ei uskonnollinen

Tavoitteeni elämässäni on

accomplished! I came to serve this lifetime, and I have spent my life taking care of others, and doing it in a loving way that was beneficial to them as well as to myself. I feel blessed to have found two careers that I adored and that were my soul's purpose this lifetime.

Minun tapainen huumori on

Älykäs, Kuiva / Sarkastinen, Ystävällinen, Hassu

Televisiosta katson

Draamat, Elokuvat, En pidä televisiosta

Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan

Scifi, Komedia, Romanssi, Draama, Dokumentti, Perhe, Trilleri

Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina

Rock musiikki, Klassinen, Blues musiikki, Jazz musiikki, Latina, New age musiikki, Kaiken kattava, Soul musiikki

Kun luen, luen aina

Omaelämänkerta, Elämänkerta, Klassinen, Kaunokirjallisuus, Terveys, Mysteeri

Käsitykseni hauskanpidosta on

enjoying whom I'm with...

Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?

Nokkela, Herkkyys, Empatia, Huumori, Hyvä ulkonäkö, Ajattelevaisuus, Viisaus

Mitä etsit?

Someone with all of the above...is there anyone out there????

Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?

Kaveri, Päivämäärä, Intiimi, Sitoutunut