Professional seeks intelligent friend

Ik spreek:

Engels

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

I am a retired professional. I am well educated with a great sense of humor and an active mind. I enjoy conversation about politics, music, life, just about anything, and now that I am retired, I am experiencing loneliness without a team to see each day. My children are grown and launched and I live alone with all my dogs and cats (you should really like dogs and cats to be comfortable with me). I am writing a couple books, but looking for ways to have a small social life. I am rather shy (tho' you won't think so) and prefer one on one time. I hold a law degree and a doctorate in social psychology and am still interested in both of those areas, but am by no way limited to them. I enjoy a quiet evening or a concert, play or realistic movie or just talk in front of the fire with a glass of wine. I have been married to an alcoholic, but prefer not to become involved with an active alcoholic. I'm not a fan of science fiction. I am a unique person and if I can get someone to take my picture I will include it.
I have no plans for another marriage but miss the sharing involved. My 6 children are all grown and I am wondering what I should do next. I am comfortable with honest men who are comfortable with themselves. I am not interested in being involved with a married man as in "something on the side". I like being the main dish, even if it isn't a constant contact kind of thing. I am very honest, loyal, reliable and generous. My clients all trusted me, and I tend to trust people..perhaps too much.
I have spent most of my life raising children, going to school and earning a living. Retiring is another way of living which makes me wonder what I should be doing.
I think I would enjoy educated gentlemanly men, probably professional, who are interested in me as a person first. I like to hear about their theories of life and their wishes or dreams and their life experiences. Quiet evenings are usually very satisfying with someone like that, doing any of a variety of things. I am unique, but since that is other's perceptions of me, I can't predict if I will be to another person, and really don't know why people think that. I am spiritual but not religious.

Sterrenbeeld

Schorpioen

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Gemiddeld

Mijn Lengte Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Bruin

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Blank

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Uit Elkaar

Ik Heb Kinderen

Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis

Ik Wil Kinderen

Nee

Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is

Glimlach

Body Art

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Mijn Haar Is

Halfblond

Ik heb één of meer van deze

Kat, Hond

Ben je bereid te verhuizen?

Nee

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

Bachelor

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Gepensioneerd

Mijn specialisatie is

Restaurants / Catering

Mijn functie is:

Mother Lawyer doctor Mom

Mijn jaarsalaris is:

Tussen de €60.000 en €75.000

Ik Woon

Met Huisdier(en)

Bij mij thuis

Is het lekker rustig

Ik Ben Een Roker

Nee

Ik Drink

Ja - Als ik uitga

Op de middelbare school was ik

Intelligent

In sociale situaties ben ik

Gereserveerd, Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Knutselen, Lezen, Muziek, Internet

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Films, Relaxen, Slapen, Een boek lezen, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

Een perfecte eerste date is

A quiet lunch or dinner in a nice restaurant to talk and get to know each other.

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

I think I've tried everything I wanted to and succeeded at most. Most, however, were things I wanted to try, not to do in perpetuity.

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk, Cool

Mijn Geloof Is

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Ik Ga Naar Diensten

Een keer per jaar

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

Well, I am in the final third...I'd like to get my house painted and get things the way I want them inside (I have a 107 year old Victorian all to myself), get my last daughter married and confident as a lawyer (she graduates Sunday from law school) and as a mother, finish the two books I am working on and maybe publish one, have enough money to go to the caribbean again (st. lucia), finish the 4 quilts I have started,
I'm not sure how to set goals beyond that, except I expect to live to be 94 and hope I will think of other things to do in that time.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Obscuur

Op tv kijk ik:

Nieuws, Documentaires, Films

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Drama

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Klassiek, Folk

Ik lees graag

Biografie, Geschiedenis, Mysterie, Filosofie, Politiek, Ik ben een schrijver

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

Watching something good with a fire in my sitting room sipping wine unless you are an alcoholic in which case I sip diet gingerale.

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Intelligentie, Humor, Empathie, Gevoeligheid, Spontaniteit, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Vriend, Date, Vastigheid