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pohora
Edgewater, Maryland | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
First name
PATRICIA
I Would Describe Myself As
When I decided to look for more intimacy in my life, I was drawn particularly to persons (men) who spoke of themselves and what they are looking for, on a site like this, as friendship, despite the understanding that those of us on here may be or are interested in more.
To lend some insight into my energy, I haven't figured out yet if I'm a true extrovert after identifying for years as an introvert; probably am somewhere in the middle. I'm upbeat, and consider myself striving to live in gratitude, for all that I really do have to be grateful for. I'm pretty curious, I generally like people; that helped me because I have been in a service profession working with people for 35 yrs. I have a naturally serious nature, but over the years have become funloving, love the outdoors especially if I have someone to enjoy it with, love dance, dancing, music (popular, some rap/hiphop, everything), art, cinema/theatre, fashion, shopping sometimes, and identify with young or perhaps at least younger people than myself. I love to spend time with (any) friends, dressing up and "going out", like for a performance, at least once in awhile. Cooking/eating dinner or travelling with friends is also special time spent.
I greatly value, in myself and others: honesty, integrity, authenticity, and a concern for justice--and strive to offer, and be worthy of, true friendship, and love.
This may sound as tho I am not interested in romance/**** I am. But your experiences shape you. I feel fairly evolved. I'm not against ****between perfect strangers, as long as both want it and they are both responsible for it. But for me the romance/****is about as good as the actual relationship is, and is not worth it if the relationship is not that good. And it takes time to build that kind of trust. For me it's focussing on what true intimacy is, seeing if it is natural to achieve that--and letting the ****take care of itself--which it would if the true intimacy is there. So at this point in my life, I'd much rather invest my time in relationships that have a chance of meeting what I see as being a pretty high bar--if what I/we get out of the time invested is friendship, with intimacy but no **** that's great in an unlimited way. I dont see myself having too many friends. It would be great to have more male friends than I have! On the other hand I probably will never fall for someone who isnt in this category. And if I fell, I would be monogamous, so I would need to know if this value is shared.
Humor is awesome, it helps to strive for it. I greatly prefer humor like the Muppets!! (haha! to me thats funny right there)--but as an example it's smart and charming. Prefer that, more than humor that is at the expense of someone and makes you cringe (teasing). I am much more involved in politics than I was when I was young, and I question whether I could date someone who espouses Trumpism (though there is a chance I would be able to be friends with that person).
To lend some insight into my energy, I haven't figured out yet if I'm a true extrovert after identifying for years as an introvert; probably am somewhere in the middle. I'm upbeat, and consider myself striving to live in gratitude, for all that I really do have to be grateful for. I'm pretty curious, I generally like people; that helped me because I have been in a service profession working with people for 35 yrs. I have a naturally serious nature, but over the years have become funloving, love the outdoors especially if I have someone to enjoy it with, love dance, dancing, music (popular, some rap/hiphop, everything), art, cinema/theatre, fashion, shopping sometimes, and identify with young or perhaps at least younger people than myself. I love to spend time with (any) friends, dressing up and "going out", like for a performance, at least once in awhile. Cooking/eating dinner or travelling with friends is also special time spent.
I greatly value, in myself and others: honesty, integrity, authenticity, and a concern for justice--and strive to offer, and be worthy of, true friendship, and love.
This may sound as tho I am not interested in romance/**** I am. But your experiences shape you. I feel fairly evolved. I'm not against ****between perfect strangers, as long as both want it and they are both responsible for it. But for me the romance/****is about as good as the actual relationship is, and is not worth it if the relationship is not that good. And it takes time to build that kind of trust. For me it's focussing on what true intimacy is, seeing if it is natural to achieve that--and letting the ****take care of itself--which it would if the true intimacy is there. So at this point in my life, I'd much rather invest my time in relationships that have a chance of meeting what I see as being a pretty high bar--if what I/we get out of the time invested is friendship, with intimacy but no **** that's great in an unlimited way. I dont see myself having too many friends. It would be great to have more male friends than I have! On the other hand I probably will never fall for someone who isnt in this category. And if I fell, I would be monogamous, so I would need to know if this value is shared.
Humor is awesome, it helps to strive for it. I greatly prefer humor like the Muppets!! (haha! to me thats funny right there)--but as an example it's smart and charming. Prefer that, more than humor that is at the expense of someone and makes you cringe (teasing). I am much more involved in politics than I was when I was young, and I question whether I could date someone who espouses Trumpism (though there is a chance I would be able to be friends with that person).
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Gemini
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Athletic
My Height Is
5' 3 (1.6 m)
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian