Compassionate, honest, heartfelt

First name

Janus

I Can Speak

English, Spanish

I Would Describe Myself As

I have been single for most of my adult life, so I do not need someone to rescue me or support me. By the same token I do not want someone that I have to rescue or support either, as I have already done my share of caretaking in bad relationships over the years. I want a partnership that supports each other as best as possible, with love, commitment, humor, communication, and honesty. We do not need to be joined at the hip, nor necessarily enjoy all of the same things, but we do need to value the desires and interests of our partner, even if we don’t wish to participate in all their choices. That also takes trust, that can only come with time & security.

I am still working full time in a job that is my passion so I don’t anticipate retiring for a few more years, but being self-employed, I can plan vacations and time off as needed. I would love to find someone who loves to travel as much as I do and enjoys experiencing the culture, language, and customs of other places, as well as the spectacular beauty of nature & National Parks.
I am a lover of people, both the old and the young, having been an elementary teacher, a deep tissue bodyworker, & now a provider of Compassionate Touch work for the elderly, chronic pain sufferers, and dementia & hospice patients. As difficult as this work can be, I love ministering to this population who are so in need of tender touch and attention. My soul is rejuvenated when I return home to my household of rescue animals who greet me with joy, delight, and unconditional love.

I live in Flagstaff because it is one of the only Democratic cities in our state, so obviously I am an extremely left-wing liberal. If that is a problem for you, then stop reading now because I won’t change and I’m not sure that I could coexist with someone who is extremely conservative in their viewpoints and attitudes in life. I am by nature a caretaker, and a caregiver, and I wish to be with someone who is as compassionate for others as I am. My mother taught me well to be kind and loving to all I meet, and I will not surround myself with negativity and prejudice. If we can’t all learn to live together in harmony and tolerance & acceptance, then what is the purpose in us being here? After all, I am one of the perfect examples of being a child of the 60s… And proud of it! We wanted to change the world for the better, and I’m still happily working towards that goal, in my own way, in my own life. Because after all, that is all we can do: to make our own little world a better place, and hope that the slow, quiet progress ripples outward.

Good luck on finding the right person just for you, but it may take time & patience & tolerance. But at our age, we probably have plenty of all of those!

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Gray

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat, Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

My Job Title Is

Deep-Tissue Therapist/CompassionateTouch

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Dining, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Dancing, Theater, Travel

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Unfortunately, with present circumstances, it would not be how I would have pictured it in the past...Now, meeting at some outdoor cafe, sitting six feet apart while sharing a coffee or a beer, getting to know one another, occ pulling the mask aside to see the other face!

I've Always Wanted To Try

Good question...no answer...

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Goofy

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

accomplished! I came to serve this lifetime, and I have spent my life taking care of others, and doing it in a loving way that was beneficial to them as well as to myself. I feel blessed to have found two careers that I adored and that were my soul's purpose this lifetime.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Dramas, Movies, I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, Health, Mystery

My Idea Of Fun Is

enjoying whom I'm with...

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Someone with all of the above...is there anyone out there????

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed